Communication with Your Doctor
Lynn Gorton, Faith Community Health Professional
LGorton@rrumc.org
“for gaining wisdom and instruction; for understanding words of insight; for receiving instruction in prudent behavior, doing what is right and just and fair”
Proverbs 1: 2-3
Have you ever left your doctor’s office and wondered what he or she was talking about, or wished you had asked more questions?
Good communication between doctors and their patients is essential to your health, and yet too many patients feel uncomfortable “bothering” the doctor with their questions or fears.
Below are some helpful tips that can be of use to all of us:
If you don’t understand – ASK. Medical jargon is confusing, so ask for an explanation in plain language. Medical professionals often lapse into “medical lingo” without even realizing it. Don’t hesitate to stop them and remind them to use more understandable terms.
Bring a list. The anxiety and confusion of a doctor’s office can make us forget some of the things we wanted to discuss with our physician. A simple list helps you and your doctor stay focused.
Give complete information. This includes symptoms, medications, allergies, and major stressors in your life. The loss of a job or illness of a loved one can have a major impact on your health. Don’t forget over-the-counter medications or supplements—some can interact with prescription drugs. For example, as little as a baby aspirin a day can cause uncontrolled bleeding after surgery. Be sure to disclose all pills you take.
Speak up if you feel rushed. If you feel your appointment is hurried, consider scheduling your next one at a less busy time. You can also request a separate “consult” appointment just to discuss what’s on your mind or review a treatment plan.
Confirm your understanding. When your doctor explains something, try repeating it back to make sure you understand, or take notes. You may also need to be assertive and send a message via MyChart so all your information is organized and accessible to your care team.
Find the right fit. A good way to choose a doctor is to ask friends and relatives about providers they trust. Don’t be afraid to express what you want from your health care team so you can all work together toward one goal: Better Health!
Prayer:
May the Great Physician, Jesus, fill our doctors’ hearts and souls to treat their patients with dignity, love, and caring concern. Amen.